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Losing a Loved One to Porn (and What You Can Do About It) How much porn is too much porn?

Losing a Loved One to Porn (and What You Can Do About It)
How much porn is too much porn?

Posted Apr 21, 2016


It’s no secret that the Internet is bursting at the seams with porn. Sure, we also go online for information, interpersonal communication, dinner reservations, music, shopping, and much more. But porn is without doubt a primary online activity. In fact, search engine data neuroscientistsOgi Ogas and Sai Gaddam analyzed 400 million worldwide searches representing more than two million Internet users and found that 13% of all searches wee porn-related

Shame and Addiction


contact

  • Contact - There is a contact boundary that exists in each person that limits how fully they experience themselves, other people, and their world in general. A full and rich experience in each of these areas is necessary to fully experience life without feeling restricted or stuck.

the "self"

"Now the 'self' cannot be understood other than through the field, just like day cannot be understood other than by contrast with night...the 'self' is to be found in the contrast with the otherness. There is a boundary between the self and the other, and this boundary is the essence of psychology." Perls [1978/1957]

what is gestalt therapy?

Gestalt therapy is an action approach to authentic living that emphasizes dynamic, present centered awareness rather than abstract analysis. It is a psychotherapy of growth, not one of illness and pathology. As such, the focus is on creative adjustment and the facilitation of ongoing maturation throughout one’s life. Picture a jigsaw with only one piece missing: we have an inherent desire to fit that piece, and an innate sense of satisfaction when the picture is complete. This drive to completion, wholeness, or Gestalt, is what propels us to deal with unfinished issues in our lives and to experience a nagging sense of discomfort until that is done.
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